How does one succeed in life?

Making more friends is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

That's it for today.

Why are terrible, boring art pieces done by famous people worth so much while beautiful pieces done by amateurs are worthless?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What I need from you?

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What are some possible reasons for people writing bad books in the fantasy genre?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why are Trump's and Khan's experiences with authorities in the US and Pakistan similar?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why is it rare for someone to despise both the Democrats and Republicans?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why did it take seven days for troops with helicopters, equipment, supplies, food, and water to be dispatched to southeast storm zones?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Does not procrastinate.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Ask yourself:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?